With the #ProHoe movement being on the rise, it’s important to know and understand some of the Pros and Cons of being a Confident Hoe, in this society. The reality is, sluts, whores, hoes, thots, etc are not only excluded out of society itself, but also the outcast of the feminist community as well. Respectability politics and morals play a huge role in the feminist community, and to die hard feminists, accepting hoes/ sluts who are genuinely unashamed and bold seems non existent. It’s great that more and more women are finally willing to become a free woman (confident hoe), but the taboo that is still deep seated behind the labels of hoes and sluts, can make it somewhat difficult for women to be consistent confident hoes. Below I’ll list the pros and cons of your new journey, as a free woman.
I’ll start with the cons:
- You’re just looked at as “fuck meat” :
This is so unfortunate, but true at the same time living life as a hoe. As soon as you start accepting the “slut life”, people immediately assume you’re ready to have sex at any given moment with any given person. Majority of people don’t realize or want to accept that hoes are humans, with personalities and feelings. But because your sexual openness is so fascinating to the masses, people only see you as a sex object only! They assume you want to fuck them because they all want to fuck you.
2. You will never be respected. Not even from other hoes:
Since you’re a self proclaimed hoe, people – especially Men, get excited and carried away. They demand attention from you, while being very disrespectful, because in their mind, it’s not morally correct to respect a hoe. It’s no surprise that free women who know what they want are referred to as hos, because technically a ho is just a gardening tool. People aren’t going to respect “things”, therefore, you are just a tool in the eyes of society. Once you understand this, it can help you to not care about people caring about your feelings. Keep in mind though, other hoes aren’t going to respect you even though they themselves are hoes too. This is because you accepted who you are, and they haven’t, so they are ashamed and afraid. Love those bitches from a distance.
3. People feel it’s absolutely okay to punish, harm, hurt, and threaten hoes:
In this reality, it’s very important and morally correct to be a well behaved woman, so for the women who goes against the grain, and who does what she wants, it’s looked at as a threat or “wrong”. Beside hoes being constantly disrespected, they are usually met with danger and “punishment” as well. Hoes are very much a threat, and people are afraid of what they do not understand, so when people act on fear, they resort to eliminating whatever it is that they fear – in this case it would be hoes. Majority of people may not admit they fear hoes, they may say something along the lines of “We don’t love these hoes” or “I don’t save hoes”, or the classic “hoes have no respect for themselves, so why should I respect them?”, or as the infamous Madea would say “call 1-800-CHOKE-DAT-HOE”. It’s all fun and games until a hoe is actually dead, because the world feels like she deserves death, simply for NOT being a “good girl”.
4. Hoes are a threat to relationships the most:
People already have a love/hate feeling about hoes/ sluts as is, but when someone is in a relationship, you – as a hoe, are in everyone’s relationship and don’t even know it. You could be minding your business, and other women may feel you want their man, when in reality their man wants you. You will be met with the vulnerability and emotions of others at any given moment, simply for you doing you. Men lie to hoes all the time about being in a relationship or marriage, because they want to be entertained by hoes. These kind of Men, along with their girlfriend (or wife) feel as though the hoe should be responsible for their relationship, when the hoe has nothing to do with the man being loyal to his woman. Women will expect you to be accountable for their man’s actions all the time. Choose not to ever address and/or entertain insecure women, unless she’s paying you for information about her “man”.
5. Evidently your pussy is “loose” and has been fucked from everyone around the world:
Majority of people have no knowledge of the vagina, and they don’t know that the vagina is a very powerful muscle in which can’t be stretched out by a dick. People have this weird idea that if a woman fucks more than one penis, this can stretch or loosen the vagina, when in reality this is impossible. The vagina is a muscle that’s meant to stretch very wide – specifically as wide as a newborn baby’s head. With knowing this, never entertain those who they think they have knowledge of a vagina, when they really don’t. Also speaking on the “amount” of sexual partners you have, it really doesn’t matter, even though people will try to shame you because of this. Ignoring and not caring is key.
Now that we’re aware of the few cons of being a Confident Hoe, here are some of the Pros:
- As a hoe, you’re obligated to nobody but yourself:
This is the first Pro to being a Hoe, especially a CONFIDENT HOE, YOU come first. This means your feelings, your mental health – you always put you before anybody else. Especially the Men that could care less about you and your well being anyway. Self care is very important as a hoe, because bitch you MUST always feel your best in order to look your best!
2. FREEDOM !
There’s nothing more freeing than being a misbehaved woman a.k.a a hoe/slut. Simply doing what’s taboo to society can be extremely empowering and fun too! You’re an adult! Do what you want, answer to no one, and never feel ashamed or bad about it. Wear what you want, say what you feel, and never feel like you should be obligated to just one Man (or person), because you’re not property. Understand that no one can own you, even if you have a “boyfriend”.
3. It’s priceless to be unashamed and careless:
People are often living in a prison called judgment, but once you’re a confident hoe, you escape this prison for good. To be Confident means to accept all that you are, “flaws” and all and owning it, without the care or opinions of others. Most people have a hard time doing this, but if you can honestly live your life loving you all of the time, everything that you want will come to you with ease. This is such an advantage in life, to be unashamed, fearless, and careless, because instead of putting all of your focus into being judged, you can now focus on other things – such as your goals and your future.
4. Money is the focus, don’t lose your focus!
If you’re a hoe that’s also a sex worker, believe it or not, your job is most women’s fantasy job. Of course being a sex worker (exotic dancer, cam girl, etc) isn’t always easy, in fact it’s very hard work, and takes dedication and consistency like every other job. But, as a sex worker your job is most flexible, and pays much more than your average 9-5. Although many women would love to be a sex worker, their shame and fear won’t allow them to. Being a sex worker, or even just a hoe who doesn’t do sex work, can heighten your endurance as a woman.
5. Once you accept that you’re a hoe, and become a confident hoe, people can’t help but to love you.
Even though being a hoe/ slut isn’t easy, it does get easier day by day. Once you change your thoughts, especially about your own self, and start to love all of you, those around you would simply accept you for who you are or won’t fuck with you. As a confident hoe, you’ll have 0 tolerance for bullshit, and you won’t care if people don’t like you. You will then begin to attract people ( men and women alike) who are actually admired, and inspired by you. Your fearlessness is what makes people love you, and they can’t help but to admit how much your courage helped to impact their lives.
In conclusion, these are only some of the MANY pros and cons of being a CONFIDENT HOE in this society. If you’re NOT comfortable calling yourself a hoe, that’s fine, but this blog is for the bitches that know they are hoes, thots, sluts, and whores. As a hoe always remember to love yourself, stay focused, and never mind the naysayers, people will talk whether you’re doing “good” or “bad”. The key is to simply do you, and give no fucks while doing it – unless it’s consensual fucks with your vagina. 😉
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